Can masturbating cause premature ejaculation? Find out!

how to make your partner last longer in bedMasturbation is without a doubt the way that most men are introduced to the pleasures of sex. It usually starts happening during adolescence and for most men, it doesn’t ever stop. COuld masturbating cause premature ejaculation? Read on and find the answer.

According to studies, men will masturbate even if they are in a satisfying relationship or even if they are married. A famous comedian put it very nicely “masturbation is sex with the only person you actually love”.

Masturbation can also be very beneficial to a man’s health, however according to recent studies, going about it wrong when you first discover it is one of the most common premature ejaculation causes.

Simply put, some men are not able to last longer in bed because that have been “spanking the monkey” the wrong way when they were young. But what do I mean by that? Let’s find out:

The wrong way to “spank the monkey”

Now, when I say “masturbating the wrong way” I don’t mean using any unusual techniques, such as laying down on a mattress or doing it over your pants, but I mean trying to be done with it as fast as possible!

Why is masturbating quickly wrong?

To put it simply, nature wants you to ejaculate as quickly as possible when you are having sex. As far as She is concerned, all living beings should only have sex in order to produce offspring, no to have fun. So, your brain is programmed to make you ejaculate as quickly as possible.

If your goal during masturbation is to climax as quickly as possible, then you simply reinforce this genetic programming, since you are essentially showing to your brain that you are absolutely A-OK with it! Unfortunately, when it comes to masturbation, finishing too quickly is something that all teenagers seem to want.

Why do teenagers want to cum as quickly as possible when masturbating?

Well there is a wide variety of reasons, but most of them have to do with not wanting to get caught! You see teenagers live with their parents and siblings, so they don’t wanna risk getting caught red handed! Other teenagers are raised in very religious households and many religions regard masturbation as something evil.

Those young men feel guilty about the pleasure they feel while masturbating, but they also want to experience it, despite their guilt, which is why they try to make their sessions last as little as possible. Whatever the case may be, teenagers are always anxious about finishing up as quickly as possible when masturbating and as we all know, anxiety and premature ejaculation go hand in hand!

This desire to finish quickly and the anxiety associated with it, seep into their adult lives and they negatively affect their sex lives.

Uh – oh, I used to masturbate quickly when I was a kid

Am I doomed to be a premature ejaculator?

Luckily, you can still override your brains programming regarding when ejaculation should occur during sex. All you need is some time, patience and the right masturbation techniques to last longer in bed for men.

Where can I find those techniques?

For all the information you will ever need on premature ejaculation and how to last longer in bed in general, check out Ejaculation Trainer and Ejaculation By Command. Apart from masturbation techniques that will help you last longer in bed, those books also contain all the necessary information on the causes and treatments of premature ejaculation!