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So, you have studied and you think that you have mastered the art of seduction, but there is one little problem: you can’t find a girl to try it on.
Well, meeting women can be kinda tough, especially for people who are not experienced in that field.
There after all millions of women out there, but not all of them are single or looking for a guy. How will you find one?
How will you find a woman that is looking for a guy for hot night of sex or even for a relationship?
Well, here are some tips to help you get a better understanding of how to meet women.
The internet is your friend
The internet is not only for buying pheromones or any other magical concoction that will allegedly make women become attracted to you like bees to honey. It is also a great place for meeting women. See that cute looking who just posted a comment on your friend’s kitten video du jour?
Well, check out her profile, see if she’s single and friend her and then chat with her when she logs on. It goes without saying that there also many websites whose whole raison d’etre is helping men meet single women and vice versa. Don’t afraid to set up a profile and try your luck. There are even guides to help you build a profile that will make you practically irresistible.
So, what you need to remember is that the internet isn’t just for porn and “pheromone” shopping, it can help you meet women. This is the 21st century for crying out loud!
A friend in need, is a friend indeed
When it comes to learning how to meet women, a lot of men seem to forget that they have friends and that those friends have friends and know people too. Just talk to your friends about the fact that you are looking for a girl and chances are that they will have a single friend to introduce you to. They might even have plenty!
What you need to remember however is that you need to make your intentions about that girl perfectly clear to your friends. If you are looking for a one night stand or something casual and not a relationship, they should know in advance in order to introduce you to the right person.
It’s also a good idea to ask that they introduce you to a co-worker or a mere acquaintance than one of their good friends or, even worse, a family member. You don’t want to cause problems for your mates should things go south.
Take up a hobby
What do I mean by taking up a hobby? I certainly don’t mean playing Call Of Duty and other video games or collecting comic books. I am talking about hobbies that involve things that you can do with other people. Dance and cooking classes for example are ideal for meeting young and older women alike.
Taking up a foreign language will probably allow you to meet foreign women. If you are into Latin women you will definitely meet some at latin dance schools. Make sure that your hobby will involve something that women would like to do, so D&D and baseball is definitely out!
Go out at nights
You aren’t going to meet new women by staying at home at nights! Go out and have some fun, either by yourself or with your friends and you will literally find yourself surrounded by single women. Try to chat up those that catch your eye and your fancy. Sure, you will strike out a few times, but eventually you will succeed.
You will become better at meeting and talking to women with each girl you talk to. In other words, even if you don’t get to “score” or meet the love of your life, each night you go out will definitely provide you with valuable lessons and experience.
Don’t set lofty and limiting goals. Don’t say things like “I am only interested in meeting rich women” as that will essentially become an excuse not to meet ANY woman. The higher and more defined the standards you set, the more excuses you will provide yourself to not talk to women.
Remember, it doesn’t matter if you crash and burn when you try to meet a girl. What matters is the effort and the things that you will take away from the encounter. No-one was born a ladies man. There are no guys that are seductive by nature. It all comes from confidence and experience. The more you put yourself out there, the better you will become at this whole attraction and seduction thing.
Those are the basics of how to meet women. Once you master them, you will need to work a bit on your seduction and conversation skills to round up the package. If you want to take things even further, you can also look into how last longer in bed, but as they say in Conan: The Barbarian “This is a story for another time”. And another article, if I may add.
Just remember, that all the dating tips in the world are useless if you don’t know how to meet women and where. Master that first, and then look into becoming Don Juan.