Get help with premature ejaculation: Define PE and beat it.

stop premature ejaculationA lot of men need help with premature ejaculation. They usually chalk up as problems caused by a sexual dysfunction that just affects their sex life.

They think that all it takes to overcome that problem, is finding out how to last longer in bed and they take their sweet time when it comes to doing something about it.

The truth however is that a premature ejaculation problem is very “sneaky” and whether you know or like it, it will find its way into your normal, everyday life and cause serious problems.

It is not a serious medical condition, but it can seriously affect a man’s psychology, his partner’s psychology and their relationship.

Premature ejaculation and you

Sexual arousal and sexual intercourse are very important, at least as far as our bodies and genetic programming is concerned, since they are essential for perhaps the most important “mission” of every living organism: procreation.

If a man reached his climax too fast and starts to feel that he is not sexually satisfying neither his partner, nor himself, he will soon start to lose self confidence.

Simply put, a premature ejaculation problem can cause serious problems to a man’s self esteem, that extend beyond the bedroom. In other words, it can make a man feel inadequate, incompetent and less than a man in pretty much all aspects of his life and not just the ones that have to do with sex and intimacy.

Furthermore, if the problem persists, one might find himself avoiding sex or even avoiding members of the opposite sex altogether, in order to save himself the embarrassment caused by this sexual dysfunction.

Premature Ejaculation and your partner

If you are in a sexual relationship with a woman, then it goes without saying that sex should be satisfying for both of you. Premature ejaculation takes the joy away from sex and it keeps the woman from reaching her climax, which leads to her feeling frustrated.

This sexual frustration causes great distress to a woman and it also seeps to her everyday life, making her very “touchy” and giving her a very “short fuse”. In short, if a woman starts feeling frustrated in bed, this feeling of frustration will permeate to her regular life, usually with dire consequences for both her and her partner.

Premature Ejaculation and your relationship

Like I said earlier, the goal of a sexual relationship is the sexual fulfillment and satisfaction of all the parties involved. Lack of sexual satisfaction leads to feelings of frustration, which will only get worse over time.

The more frustrated you and your partner become, the more your relationship will suffer and before you know it, it will reach its breaking point. In other words, if you can’t satisfy your woman in bed, she will start looking for a man who can, in order to save herself from all the distress and drama that this sexual frustration is causing in her life.

Premature ejaculation is a serious problem

As you can probably tell, premature ejaculation can cause much bigger problems to a man and his partner than simply a few nights of bad sex. If you think that you are reaching your climax too fast, then it is imperative that you talk to your partner about the issue and that you do something about it as soon as possible.

The good news is that curing PE is much easier than you think. The best cures and treatments for premature ejaculation can be found in the books Ejaculation Trainer and Ejaculation by Command.